Matthew 19:4-6a: “Haven’t you read,” He replied, “that at the beginning the Creator `made them male and female,’ and said, `For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?  So they are no longer two, but one.”

June was traditionally called the “Marriage” month.  Thanks to the emphasis on “Gay Marriage” arising from the disastrous decision the Supreme Court gave years ago and the current push to rename “Dairy” month “Gay Pride” month I thought a reminder of the Biblical perspective would be prudent. 

While the Bible does address homosexuality, it does not explicitly mention gay or/same-sex marriage.  It is clear, however, that the Bible condemns homosexuality as an immoral and unnatural sin.  Leviticus 18:22 identifies homosexual sex as an abomination, a detestable sin.  Romans 1:26-27 declares homosexual desires and actions to be shameful, unnatural, lustful, and indecent.  First Corinthians 6:9 states that practicing homosexuals are unrighteous and will not inherit the kingdom of God.  Since both homosexual desires and actions are condemned in the Bible, it is clear that homosexuals “marrying” is not God’s will, and would be, in fact, sinful.

Whenever the Bible mentions marriage, it is between a biological male and a biological female.  The first mention of marriage, Genesis 2:24, describes it as a man leaving his parents and being united to his wife.  In passages that contain instructions regarding marriage, such as 1 Corinthians 7:2-16 and Ephesians 5:23-33, the Bible clearly identifies marriage as being between a man and a woman.  Biblically speaking, marriage is the lifetime union of a man and a woman, primarily for the purpose of building a family and providing a stable environment for that family and culture.

According to the Bible, marriage is ordained by God to be between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:21-24; Matthew 19:4-6). Gay/same-sex marriage is a perversion of the institution of marriage and an offense to the God who created marriage.  As Christians, we are not to condone or ignore sin.  Rather, we are to share the love of God and the forgiveness of sins that is available to all, including homosexuals, through faith in Jesus Christ.  We are to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and contend for truth with “gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15).  As Christians, when we take a stand for truth and the result is personal attacks, insults, and persecution, we should remember the words of Jesus: “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated Me first.  If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own.  As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.  That is why the world hates you” (John 15:18-19).                                                                     

(adapted from GotQuestions.org)

Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” 

Genesis 2:24: “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.”